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11/19/2012 – It was about time I explain this video.
This video was about an adoption process, that never went through. Someone (on my Wife’s side of the family) was having their fourth baby with someone that they did favors for, and said they couldn’t possibly love the baby, and didn’t want to feel the same way towards them, that she does for her middle child. (She can’t stand the father, and admits that she can’t even tell the 5 year old that she loves her, all because of who her father is. But won’t give the child to the father, because of a “PRIDE” issue. She’d rather hate her child, than give it to the father) So she talked about having an abortion. We told her that wasn’t necessary, and that we would adopt the baby. We had a name picked out if it was a boy, and we have a named picked out if it was going to be a girl. Well right before she gave birth, she had a sudden change of heart. Come to find out (through this persons sister) that she was taking pills, and doing everything in the book to have a miscarriage because she didn’t want to give the baby up, but she wasn’t going to love it either.)
The worst part… This person (that was going to let us adopt the baby she wanted to abort or miscarry) was having that baby with someone she met and had sex with, just to get a tattoo FOR FREE! She also mentioned that she was going to get pregnant again (with the father of two of the children), and try for a boy (Because all she had was GIRLS, and the father wanted a SON) She was willing to keep having kids until she got a boy, even though she lived under her mom’s roof, who is paying for all the diapers, food, school supplies, and everything… For ALL FOUR of her kids! Worked one job at 19, for a couple weeks… And then walked out (quit) because she didn’t like someone she worked with, and she hasn’t had a job since then, and that was YEARS ago! Now she lives under someone else’s roof, and food stamps. This is a person that has no clue what a condom or birth control is, and really put a damper on things (We were SUPER FREAKING EXCITED about the Adoption. We wanted that Baby to grow up in a loving family, and NOT have to live it’s life NEVER hearing the words “I LOVE YOU”) when “she failed” at miscarrying the baby, and decided to keep it, EVEN THOUGH she knows (and still doesn’t) love her fourth baby girl.
That makes 3 baby daddy’s with 4 children. Doesn’t love the 2nd or 4th child, but loves the other two. We still have the message she wrote to us (on ), saying all of that. (That she couldn’t love the baby and can’t even tell her 2nd child that she loves her, all because of who the Daddy is)
Life lesson: If you have Sex, you’re going to get pregnant!
If you don’t want a kid, DON’T HAVE SEX! It’s that simple.
And then after ALL OF THIS, we had a baby on the way!
And then at 11 weeks, we find out it died two weeks ago.
It has NOT BEEN a good week for us, not at all.
I’m going to make this video public a little bit longer,
to celebrate TWO MILLION FREAKING VIEWS! 😀
This video is just for keep sakes, I’m gonna make it private or unlisted in the morning. Probably unlisted.
She is 4 years old in this video, and her birthday is in two months.
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